Do yo want to have children?

DO YOU WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN?

This is a hard question especially to a modern woman. Nowadays women have others priorities instead children. First of all, the profession and them to enjoy its benefits as travel and buy things that they always had wished for example a car, a house and to be in fashion. We have four points of view about to have a family with children. First, a woman who wish to have a baby someday, after that a woman whose plan is to adopt a child, then, a young mother who has a son and finally, a woman who priority is not exactly to be a mother.

The first woman wishes to have a child someday because a kid is important to a human being in order to grow up, to be responsible, and to realize the true love. The child’s love is pure and unlimited; therefore to have that experience is a right for all people. A child is joy, innocence, and proud; however, it is a fact that children are a big responsibility for their parents; furthermore, it is a challenge that is important not only for the parents but to other members of the family too. On the other hand, it is important for the society because it needs positive leaders; then, we can contribute raising good people who help the society to create a better future.

The second woman thinks that to be mother is a blessing from God, but in my personal case, I have a son and I do not want more because I think it's the perfect time in my life to dedicate to my career and enjoy my marriage. I believe that children are required to experience the wonder of being a mother but I definitely think that a woman should have success in all areas of the life, but I consider important to spend time studying and be a professional and why not, also enjoy personal life and enjoy traveling and visiting new places because as mothers invest much time with our children and I think, need to experiment devoted to other important areas of our lives for that reason I do not want more children, I believe one maternal experience is enough.

Some women, when they choose having children, they find uncertain issues for conceiving them. These women find scientific alternatives in the process of having children, such as the fertilization in order to increase the number of members in their family, but in many cases this process is unsuccessful due to unknown reasons. At that point of the process, where almost all options are exhausted, many people ignore the possibility of adoption. Adoption is a process in which families choose to integrate into their lives a child who lives in a specialized place as a result of the abandonment of their real parents. Those children live in these facilities waiting to have a home and a family. Also, those children are human beings with big hearts that are waiting to have a mom that shelters at night, a father who plays with them and even siblings who become best friends. Given the above and according to the comments made, it can be said that it would be a nice dream that households without children value the adoption as a method of giving a child a life that is full of love and hopes to give it to their new parents.

Finally, not always the realization of a woman is motherhood. Today the society in which we live teaches women not to be chauvinistic and the importance of both professionally and personally realization. Travel, learn languages, learn about other cultures, be professional, have management positions or strengthen their own business, political participation, the couple and the many forms of love have become priorities for the modern woman. Having a child is simply another step in the realization of a woman and not the equally important for every woman, as much depend on their priorities and their life project.

It is up to each woman how to prioritize your life and decide that is what will make it happy. Today we have the freedom to choose to become mothers or not, there are many methods of contraception for a woman to enjoy sex without the risk of an unwanted pregnancy and that wonderful moment in the life of a woman like many others come when She feels she is prepared to function in this field.

Secretariat

Secretariat

Secretariat is a story based on real life events. It tells the story of Penny Chanery's and an American thoroughbred horse famous in 1973, which won the Triple Crown tournament in the United States. Secretariat tells the story of Penny from two very different levels: the personal and the professional.

Penny was a housewife before her mother died and his father became ill. At that point She decided to work on the states of his father in Virginia, USA, entering the world of horse racing, and eventually became the first woman to win the Triple Crown, next to a veteran horse trainer and his friend Lucien Laurin. This resounding success was unexpected.

Penny, being a housewife, was a woman devoted and completely dedicated to her home. When she entered the world of horses, living in a patriarchal society, her husband and daughters turn away and do not gave her the support she needed. Lucien, then, became her friend giving her all the moral support and knowledge she needed to be an entrepreneur woman and fulfilling her dreams. This distance with her family is very difficult position for Penny because she also gave up living key moments in the life of her family, for example, when her oldest daughter makes her debut as a singer. However, this separation of the family has a reward at the end of this story, where distance, time and especially the entrepreneurial spirit of Penny manages to make her family appreciate more than ever the woman she is as mother and wife.

Penny used to be a submissive and marginalized woman besides her husband, typical behavior of the age in which she lived, but with the drastic changes that she suffered (the death of her mother and her ill father) Penny decided to take control of her life as a working woman, and brings up the dream of their parents, which inspires her be a prominent woman recognized during the period in which they lived, gaining her admiration by those who are involved in the horse racing environment.

This film brings a great message, where you can see that with bravery and courage is possible to achieve the dreams, regardless of the shortcomings encountered on the road, and anything with love is possible. It is also important to note that Penny never abandoned her family, her dedication as a mother and wife made possible that she could achieve the success and recognition of her family and society.